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Be Optimistic and NOT Pessimistic!

To BE OPTIMISTIC is always better than to be pessimistic.

This is a "How to Be Optimistic" lesson one of my friends told us last Saturday night while we were in a party with our friends.

He actually answered when I asked my friends this question by saying: "Being Optimistic is not that impossible. I always get through some difficult situations, which are actually facing me because of some regulations in my resettlement, since ten years." My friend's answer goes.

"Once more again, I solved some challenges in my way to continue an offline project.

The project is one of many outcomes I am working to fulfil out of more than thirty years experiences. It is running in my warm blood and making me feel that I am burning myself like the Phoenix to survive.

The blind regulations just say I should get a normal job while I am working with some institutions like you to achieve this project. I coordinated with some leaders in my network to explain to the executives who are responsible of the implementation of the new regulations, that the project is important as the only option to fulfil these regulations by other means.

The first time I did that, I got my welfare stopped for three months. I have never faced that very bad situation in my life, even while I was hiding from the security agents of the dictatorial regimes in my homeland and other countries I came through.

I thought about this question before and struggled to be optimistic too in those hard conditions. Perhaps, the existentialism I read and learned much of it during the 70s has helped me to take escape hard feelings, through which I considered pain is as such as happiness, a feeling that we could manage.

However, I could not sleep so easily. My head was full of many bad thoughts. I thought of getting there to my local administration and shout on their faces like a mad man. Nevertheless, I again took it easy and said to myself, I had always been very rationale, so why should I get mad because they denied me my welfare?

I understand that welfare is not something to negotiate, as it is an international obligation according to the UN Refugees Convention of 1951 and the relevant Protocol of 1961. Under this circumstance, they will never have rights to treat refugees as nationals, since they have no citizenship in their society after long years.

My teenager son said to me one day "Baba, break-off this stone from your heart and you'll feel better!"

I told myself I should be optimistic and I should keep myself rationale to win over this kind of misunderstanding to my qualifications and expertises.

Luckily, I found here somebody who knows how the procedures work to help me write a plea against the executives who stopped my welfare. I won the case, and found that being optimistic is always good to stop you from burning your brain.

Therefore, how to be optimistic all the time is the right question to ask those who have been in troubles."

I took my friend's note about "how to be optimistic" to carry on this mission and find more accurate answers to this question.

Therefore, if you were wondering about how to be more optimistic or have got some key-points to come and boil them into this discussion keep them rolling in here. Use the following comment form.

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